Mentorship Matters

I had a moment today.  

I went to visit my Little Sister today and as I was preparing to leave and let her know that I would see her next week, she gives me a hug.  I left her school, feeling all warm and fuzzy on the inside.

It might not sound like much, but it made me realize that I matter to her.  Every week, she looks forward to our visits and her constant question each week is, “How much time do we have left?” If I miss a day or even have to switch from a Wednesday to a different day, she wants to know why.

Growing up, I had a Big Sister for a while and I would start to look forward to seeing her as well.  The difference in being a Little Sister and having a Little Sister is that my Big Sister would pick me up from home and I visit my Little at her school each week.  (Big Brothers Big Sisters offers different ways of involvement to fit each volunteers lifestyle, school-based and community-based).  I didn’t realize the importance of this relationship and others like it until I got older.  Why would someone just volunteer their time (and money in some instances) to spend time with me? Maybe my Little Sister wonders the same thing at times, but it all makes sense now.

This concept of “the village” is real.  Different people come around to play different roles in the lives of children.  My Little Sister is one of six children, so the hour we spend together each week is an hour where it is all about her and I believe that it is important.  The popular conversation about misguided youth continues, but we, the village and community, have to look at ourselves at some point and ask, “What are we doing to help?”

As much as I try, I know that individually I can’t change the world, but I can work within my scope to be that mentor, volunteer and positive influence on a young child who simply needs a reminder that someone cares. 

For those of you who are already mentors and volunteers, remember that you matter.  My challenge to others who have not yet accepted the role, don’t be afraid. Perfection is not required for this role.  All you need is a willing heart and your time.