Saturday, April 16, 2011

Black Hair Care in Flag...A Slight Oxymoron (For Me At Least)

It's been 6 months since I moved to Arizona and I am almost comfortable where I am. I say almost because I haven't been able to make this place feel like home, just yet.  One reason being, I can't seem to find a hair stylist in Flagstaff! Thankfully, I found a stylist in Phoenix (shoutout to Shonia at www.shoniasuniquedesigns.com).  Otherwise, I'd be walking around not looking like myself and embarrassing my grandmother.
All of my hair experiences have been interesting, to say the least.  I only write this because of the experiences that I have personally tried.  It's not my place to name stylists or salons because people should be able to form their own opinions and quite possibly, it could just be me and my hair that have the issue.
Flagstaff is a dry place and most people require a little extra moisture and I get that.  The first stylist I went to was cool, expect I thought she out way too much grease in my hair to compensate for the dryness.  In the end, I didn't like how my hands felt after I wrapped my hair, plus I didn't feel like she really "did" my hair.  
Two weeks later, I decided to try another stylist and salon.  I loved the cut, but didn't appreciate the service.  She started to flat iron my hair when I heard sizzling...no good!  No one likes to be told how to do their job, but I knew my hair wasn't dry so I had to speak up.  Soon after, she says that she has an obligation to pick up her nephew.  At this point, she had flat ironed my hair, but knew she could have worked a little harder to make it look that much better.  Moral of that story: another disappointment.
About two weeks ago, one of the student workers in my office heard from other staff member about another stylist in Flagstaff.  I hadn't heard of him, so we decided to check the salon out.  I was blunt and asked, "Can anyone in here do Black hair?'  His response (and I should have run away then) was, "Everybody can do everybody's hair in here." NOT TRUE. Sorry playa.
I made an appointment for the next day, figuring that curls wouldn't be too hard. I was under the impression that the man would be doing my hair, but was mistaken.  Cool, not a big deal, I thought.  The shampoo girl takes me back to the bowl, neglecting to use a towel until I reminded her (another sign that I should have not been there).  Then, she asks me what a relaxer is.  I was told the day before that they did not use perms and I didn't trust them that much to put one on my head anyway.  As I explained what a relaxer is, she sounded intrigued and said "That's cool."  I felt like she should have at least known what it was, but whatever.  
Long story short, the curls were horrendous! She didn't use any kind of setting lotion before putting the rollers in  and even started using a pick on the curls when they were dry.  I felt like that defeated the whole purpose of why I was there.  Needless to say, I was embarrassed to even walk outside and will never return there.  
Like I said, thank God for the referral I got to my stylist in Phoenix.  To me, the drive and cost is worth it.  I know the whole "I am not my hair" concept and I get it, but when your hair is not the way you are used to, you know it and you feel it.  Since being in Flagstaff, I've had to do my own hair much more than I've liked, but I think a proper presentation begins with a decent hairstyle.  
My final opinion is that if a person would move here and could really do some hair, they would be paid....just saying!

Thursday, April 7, 2011

3 Weeks To Go: Physical Fitness and Wellness

It's hard to believe that I've been training myself for this 8K race for 4 weeks.  I'm slightly surprised at my own dedication to it.  My will was tested the other day when I was still on campus until 10 PM and hadn't done my workout for the day.  The goal that morning was to get up and run at 6 AM because I knew it would be a long day.  So here I am, on the treadmill at 10:15 PM, trying to keep pushing myself.  The training schedule says I was supposed to run 2.5 miles; I got to about 2 miles, but I was definitely exhausted.
Physically, I still feel great.  I recognize the long-term benefits of staying in shape and taking care of my body.  My biggest struggle has been to match my diet with my workout schedule.  Currently, I'm the smallest I've ever been in my adult life.  Usually, a person would not complain about losing weight.  I'm just saying that I can't afford to invest in new clothes right now.  Either way, I'm very comfortable with my body and the way I look.  Who knows? I might put back on a few pounds once it's all over.
I'm sure I won't have an intense workout schedule once this is over, but I think my body has already gotten used to the idea of physical activity.
Off to the gym as week 4 comes to a close....

-CN